Alkyldimethyl phosphine oxides (CnDMPO) as well as alkyldiethyl phosphine oxides (CnDEPO) with chain lengths of n = 10 (decyl), 12 (dodecyl), and 14 (tetradecyl) were synthesized and purified to study how the formation of microemulsions depends on the size of the headgroup and on the length of the alkyl chain. For that purpose, equal amounts of water and n-octane were taken and surfactant was added to solubilize the two solvents. The resulting fish-shaped phase diagrams for C10DEPO, C12DEPO, and C14DEPO show that the longer the hydrophobic chain the more efficient the surfactant. Simultaneously, the extension of the lamellar phase (L-alpha) shifts toward lower total mass fractions gamma of the surfactant, i.e., the tendency to form lyotropic liquid crystals (LCs) increases. These trends are well-known for nonionic alkyl ethylene oxides and can thus be interpreted accordingly. What is astonishing, however, is the significant influence the size of the short side chains has. Replacing two methyl groups by two ethyl groups leads to a drastic drop of the three-phase region toward lower temperatures, while the efficiency remains nearly unchanged. Moreover, the tendency to form LCs decreases significantly.