This study further extends the scope of a previous paper [Y Ferro and A. Allouche, J. Chem. Phys. 118, 10461.(2003)] on the reactivity of atomic Na with water to some other highly polar molecules known for their solvation properties connected to efficient hydrogen bonding. The solvation mechanisms of ammonia and methanol are compared to the hydration mechanism. It is shown that in the case of ammonia, the stability of the solvated system is only ensured by electrostatic interactions, whereas the methanol action is more similar to that of water. More specific attention is given to the solvation process, of the valence 3s Na electron. The consequences on the chemical reactivity are analyzed: Whereas ammonia is nonreactive when interacting with atomic sodium, two chemical reactions are proposed for methanol. The first process is dehydrogenation and yields methoxy species and hydrogen. The other one is dehydration and the final products are methoxy species, but also methyl radical and water. The respective roles of electron solvation and hydrogen bonds network are analyzed in detail in view of the density of states of the reactive systems. (C) 2004 American Institute of Physics.