The C-F bond activation of pentafluoropyridine (PFP) by group 14 dialkylamino metalylenes has been studied employing DFT calculations. Emphasis is placed on the group 14 central atom (M = Si-II, Ge-II, and Sn-II) and substituents (-NMe2, -(NPr2)-Pr-i, -Cl, -NH2, and -PH2) dependent switching of oxidative addition to the metathesis/substitution reaction route, using state-of-the-art theoretical methods (M062X/def2-QZVP(SMD)//M062X/def2-TZVP) to provide a systematic classification of the individual mode of reactions. Moreover, an energy decomposition analysis (EDA) is implemented to get a brief insight into the physical factors that control the activation barriers originating via the different mode of reactions, viz., oxidative addition and metathesis routes. The key finding is that the distortion of PFP is the principal guiding factor in the oxidative addition reaction, while distortions imposed on both the PFP and metalylenes are inevitable toward the origin of the metathesis reaction barrier. The preferable oxidative addition reaction over metathesis of substituted silylenes can be explained on the basis of electron concentration and the HOMO-LUMO gap between the reacting substrates. However, the dramatic switch between oxidative addition and metathesis reaction in substituted germylenes depends on both the electronic and steric nature of the substituents. Similar observations are also noted for the reactivity of substituted stannylenes.