In the absence of stabilizers in the reaction medium, the nonaqueous synthesis of metal oxide nanoparticles usually results in agglomerated products. Stabilization is however often possible in a postsynthetic treatment, involving the addition of organic ligands that coordinate to the nanoparticle surface. The ligands are commonly expected to chemisorb via functional groups; however, we have recently shown that also weakly and unspecifically interacting ligands can lead to stabilization. Here, we present detailed investigations on the stabilization, comparing the binding of weakly coordinating ligands to a system with strongly and selectively binding stabilizers and additionally exploring the effect of ligand chain length. Although in all cases stabilization and disintegration of agglomerates to the primary particle level are achieved, strong differences are observed with respect to the processes at the particle surface. Moreover, these processes are shown to be more complex than simple ligand adsorption and need to be understood for proper design and choice of stabilizers.